Recently we had some Real Talk on Discovering Bondage with Pro Domme, Elise Graves. Elise has been a performer in BDSM porn for 15 years, a performer, director, and producer for BondageLiberation.com for 5+ years and has offered professional bondage experiences through BondageTherapy.com for 7+ years. It’s safe to say that Elise is obsessed with bondage 🙂 =
Elise takes bondage very seriously, and she also views bondage as a wonderful way for adults to have consensual fun and play together through exploring big themes of pain, pleasure, suffering, domination, submission, and even joy. Elise has found through her experience that when practiced in a safe, trusting, and consensual setting, BDSM play can allow people to experience sensation and express themselves in ways they never have before.
One of the greatest benefits that Elise has gained from bondage has been learning how to have boundaries, as well as being able to express herself. She has noticed that the ability to experience intense sensations, to express the emotions that come with that experience, and being witnessed in one’s suffering is a potent experience. She has seen powerful transformations occur when people are able to surrender to the feelings and sensations that arise during a BDSM scene, which can provide a unique healing container for play partners and clients.
Other fun topics covered in this episode include why Elise loves to be in service of others (including her 23 year old cat!), her favorite heavy rubber gear, and recent advances in sex tech that she is intrigued by. There are additional audience questions answered in this episode that are exclusively on our Patreon!
You can follow Elise’s work at bondageliberation.com and bondagetherapy.com
You can also follow her on instagram @bondageliberation and on twitter at @bondagelib.
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